Dec21
December 21st, 2015
4 DAYS UNTIL CHRISTMAS!!!
Hello Family and Friends!! I hope all is well back home and everyone
is ready for Christmas. I have heard that the weather back home has
been pretty crazy as of late. Things are really going well out here.
We had ourselves a pretty good week and good things are continuing to
happen all around us. I'm grateful for this truly wonderful time of
year when the whole world seems to think a little more about our
Savior and His life.
Unfortunately this week, I don't have a whole lot to report on...but
the things that did happen were pretty neat. Last Tuesday, after we
had finished our P-Day, we were heading out to do some house tracting
using the new Christmas video that the church produced. We prayed just
before leaving our apartment, and set out for a good night of knocking
on doors. It is probably about a 75 yard walk to the parking lot exit
to our apartment complex and as soon as we walked out the door of our
apartment building I had the feeling that we didn't need to leave our
apartment complex that night. I pushed off the prompting, thinking
that it was only my own laziness that didn't want to hike up the steep
streets of Mistretta, but just before we had reached the exit the
prompting returned and it was much stronger this time. Immediately I
turned around and started heading back towards our apartment. We
re-entered our apartment, prayed a little more specifically and began
climbing the stairs of our apartment building. Now, for Anziano Da
Ponte and I's first 3 weeks here in Mistretta, we did absolutely
nothing but house tracting. We knocked on doors for hours and hours on
end, and we did not get into one single home. Not one for three
straight weeks. We modified our approach, used videos, scriptures,
pamphlets... We tried it all and nothing seemed to work. Back to the
story. We got let into our first home on the third and last floor of
our apartment building. It was a younger lady, who had a really nice
house. We showed her the video and that was about it for her. She
didn't show any real interest in us returning or wanting to learn
more, but she was really kind. We then went to Part B of our apartment
building and began knocking. We knocked on the middle door on the
second floor and a classily dressed man opened up his front door. At
the beginning he immediately responded "No." Anziano Da Ponte fired
back with another question right after he let us in. Two houses in a
row. I thought that I was going to fall over. We got inside and the
husband called for his wife. She came walking into their living room
and right from the get go she had walls put up, in the sense that she
wasn't having anything to do with us or our message. We showed them
the new little video, and all of those walls began to crumble. We
began to laugh and talk a little bit more and a little bit more. Well,
by the end of the short little visit, that same wife who built
barriers as soon as she saw us, was telling us when we needed to
return and when would be the best time so we could meet with their
whole family. The guy is probably around 40, along with the wife and
they do have you get children. I'm just not sure of their ages of how
many of them there are. Miracle Number One. We left their home and
hiked up to the third and final floor or Part B. We decoded to knock
on the middle door again, because it was obviously our lucky door.
Now, another little de tour.... We have walked past this smaller
little lady about 3 or 4 times and she has always been so kind with
us. She is seriously like 5'2" tall and 100 pounds max. Her husband is
about 5'6" and about 250 pounds. She has always been very warm with us
but it has never really had a great opportunity to start a good gospel
conversation with her. We recently seen her walking out of Part B of
our apartment building and we were wondering if by chance she just
happen to live that close to us. Back to the story again. We knocked
on the middle door, on the third floor and that same little short
young lady opened the door. As she noticed that it was us, she swung
the door open a little wider and welcomed us in immediately. THREE
HOUSE IN ONE NIGHT. I almost fell over. She brought us into her
kitchen, and there we met her parents, her husband and his little 1.5
year old son. We showed them our video and talked with them for about
an hour. We mainly listened as they did a vast majority of the talking
and we would pitch in when we had the chance. I feel like we made a
really good impression with them. We didn't argue or try to tell them
everything that we knew, we just listened. Turns out that her husband,
took the missionary lessons about 20 years ago when he was a teenager
and he has read most of the Book of Mormon. As we were leaving, they
said, "We are always home, come by any time!" They were the nicest and
the coolest people. Tonight Anziano Da Ponte and I plan on returning
back to both of these families and beginning the lessons with them.
Last Tuesday, was one of the greatest evenings of my mission and it
only happened because we allowed the spirit to be our guide. That is
an area where I need to improve and improve drastically.
This past week, we did lots of service for our old blind friend Nino.
He is seriously my hero and just being around him makes me happy. I'm
not sure if I have ever told you his entire story, and if I have
already...I apologize, because right now I am going to do it again.
Nino was born in Mistretta and is 65 years old. He often tells us
hunting stories, points out the house where he was born, and he
seriously knows everyone in town by name. Nino used to live in
Northern Italy in a big city called Bologna. There he was the head
chef for many years at the biggest and fanciest restaurant in Bologna.
Bologna is a very, very large and rich city. There he was introduced
to the church by his older brother, began taking lessons from the
missionaries and was baptized by that same older brother who
introduced him to the missionaries. He still remembers those
missionaries names and years ago he went to America just to visit and
spend some time with those 2 elders. Nino married an American sister
missionary after she finished her mission and moved to Italy. They
were married and sealed in the Bern, Switzerland Temple. Nino than
decided that it would be best for him and his little family to return
to Mistretta and call Mistretta home. He continued to work as a chef
in a town about an hour drive from Mistretta called Cefalù. Nino is
well known in Mistretta and people often call him for advice on how to
cook. 8 years ago, his wife inherited a large amount of money after he
parents died. 6 and a half years ago, she told Nino that she would be
heading to America to get her knees replaced. Well she took off, had
her knees replaced, but she never did come back. She is currently
living in Brooklyn. Nino began to loose his eye sight some years back.
Now he is completely blind in his left eye and has barely anything
left in his right....yet he is the most humble, happy, grateful, kind
and loving little old fella that I've ever known. He always finds the
good in people and in every situation....no matter how difficult that
goodness may be to find. Him and his wife has one girl named Sonia.
Now Sonia is 31 years old and lives just off of the mountain in
Mistretta. She comes up often to see her dad. They are the best of
friends and he always brightens up when he starts talking about his
daughter. For Christmas this year, Nino gave Anziano Da Ponte and I a
pair of gloves and some nice long socks for the cold winter that is
approaching. He is such a good guy. In one of the Christmas
Packages that I received last week, there were 10 little marble
replica statues of the Christus statue that they have down at Temple
Square....Anziano Da Ponte and I have been giving these little statues
to our members as Christmas Presents. When we gave Nino his, he was so
thankful and immediately went up his stairs and set it on his night
stand right next to his bed. Nino is a champ and as I said earlier,
we've been doing a lot of service for him, which I love to do. He has
a little old cellar type home, that is 20 yards from his house and he
keeps all of his wood for the winter in there. These week we chopped
wood, filled sacks with the chopped wood and hauled them down to his
house so he will have plenty of wood to keep his wood stove burning.
We also took the time to re-stack his pile, so if he does it on his
own....the big tall unstable stack won't come falling down and crush
the poor guy. Now it is all safe and ready to go. I love Nino. He
wishes everyone back home a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Saturday Evening we held the annual "MISTRETTA HAS TALENT" in our
church building as our ward Christmas Party. All of the members come
prepared with something that they can perform for everyone else.
Anziano Da Ponte and I have really been encouraging the members to
invite their friends and family members who are not members to come,
but performing that invitation in a natural and normal way. We don't
want to scare people away with an awkward and strange invite...We want
to be casual and show them simply that we care. The members came
through big. We had many less active members and even a family of non
members that we have tried working with, that had never set foot in
our church. It was a HIT. We had some piano solo's, poetry, a story,
and Nino even played his harmonica for us. He dedicated one verse of
"White Christmas" to us American Missionaries. I was nominated to be
the Host. We decided that it would be a fun idea to have everyone that
wanted to perform, to bring along also a white elephant gift. After
each contestant performed, they got to choose a present from my giant
Christmas stocking. It was hilarious. The spirit of Christmas was
surely there and we had a lot of fun all together.
That is all of the good from this last week. Last Thursday was a very
special ladies birthday and today is a pretty good guys birthday. I
would like to wish Momma Mandee a Happy Birthday on the 17th and Papa
Jon a Happy Birthday Today. I'm not exactly sure what I did to receive
the parents that I did, but I consider myself to be the luckiest young
feller alive. I've been blessed with two amazing moms, that have both
given me everything that I could ever ask for. They have given me more
love than I will ever deserve and have sacrificed more than I will
ever be able to fully comprehend. My old man...well he has been my
best friend for as long as I can remember. Whether it was out on
SkyWay Golf Course on Saturday Mornings, looking up in the stands on a
Friday Evening, up in the batting cage after a long day, shoveling
concrete out of an old wheelbarrow on a hot summer day, watching the
Packer game after church or just needing someone to talk to....my old
man has always been there for me. Things may not have always been
easy, and 99.9% of that is completely my fault...but no matter what
happens, no matter where I am, no matter how old I may get....that
bald headed fella will always be my number one guy, my first best
friend, my most trusted hero, my greatest supporter and best of
all...my dad. No other person has taught me so much, while at the same
time saying so little. No other person has done so much, while at the
same time never asking for anything in return. No other person has had
more patience or put in more time turning me into who I am today.
Happy Birthday Papa Jon!! I hope it is one to remember...next year on
this day we will be together, drinking a Mountain Dew and sitting at a
sweet Chinese restaurant. Boy i cannot wait for that. I love you dad!
I'm so excited to skype home this Friday. It will be here before we
all know it and I cannot wait. Just a reminder, I will be calling home
at exactly 9 am sharp. I will be calling home to my Grandma Bubbles
computer, and it will be set up exactly how it was on Mothers Day.
Bring all the questions that you want, no matter how long, deep or
random they may be. I don't want there to be any moments of awkward
silence. If you would like to personally say something, raise your
hand or just start talking. I would love to hear from ya! I'm grateful
for you all and for the opportunity that we will have to spend a few
hours on Christmas Day together. What a blessing!
Everyone, have a great week and please be safe. Have a very, very
Merry Christmas. I hope you ap have all felt the true meaning of
Christmas. We must remember that if there would have been no Christ,
there would be no Christmas. He was and is the greatest gift that we
have received. Everything that we believe and everything that we have
hope for is only because of Him. He is our Elder Brother, our Advocate
with the Father, The Prince of Peace, The Lord of Lords, The King of
Kings. He is our Savior and our Redeemer. He is the Christ and the
only begotten of the Father. He is the reason for the season. He is
the reason for our Hope. Because of Him....everything is possible. I'm
grateful for Him and this wonderful Christmas season that we have to
remember His ever so humble birth and everything that He performed
from the time that He left that little manger. Let us, not like the in
keepers of old, make room and time for Him during this Christmas
Season. I love you all. Merry Christmas. I'll see you soon..❤️
Much Love from Italia,
Anziano JarDee Nessen
Hello Family and Friends!! I hope all is well back home and everyone
is ready for Christmas. I have heard that the weather back home has
been pretty crazy as of late. Things are really going well out here.
We had ourselves a pretty good week and good things are continuing to
happen all around us. I'm grateful for this truly wonderful time of
year when the whole world seems to think a little more about our
Savior and His life.
Unfortunately this week, I don't have a whole lot to report on...but
the things that did happen were pretty neat. Last Tuesday, after we
had finished our P-Day, we were heading out to do some house tracting
using the new Christmas video that the church produced. We prayed just
before leaving our apartment, and set out for a good night of knocking
on doors. It is probably about a 75 yard walk to the parking lot exit
to our apartment complex and as soon as we walked out the door of our
apartment building I had the feeling that we didn't need to leave our
apartment complex that night. I pushed off the prompting, thinking
that it was only my own laziness that didn't want to hike up the steep
streets of Mistretta, but just before we had reached the exit the
prompting returned and it was much stronger this time. Immediately I
turned around and started heading back towards our apartment. We
re-entered our apartment, prayed a little more specifically and began
climbing the stairs of our apartment building. Now, for Anziano Da
Ponte and I's first 3 weeks here in Mistretta, we did absolutely
nothing but house tracting. We knocked on doors for hours and hours on
end, and we did not get into one single home. Not one for three
straight weeks. We modified our approach, used videos, scriptures,
pamphlets... We tried it all and nothing seemed to work. Back to the
story. We got let into our first home on the third and last floor of
our apartment building. It was a younger lady, who had a really nice
house. We showed her the video and that was about it for her. She
didn't show any real interest in us returning or wanting to learn
more, but she was really kind. We then went to Part B of our apartment
building and began knocking. We knocked on the middle door on the
second floor and a classily dressed man opened up his front door. At
the beginning he immediately responded "No." Anziano Da Ponte fired
back with another question right after he let us in. Two houses in a
row. I thought that I was going to fall over. We got inside and the
husband called for his wife. She came walking into their living room
and right from the get go she had walls put up, in the sense that she
wasn't having anything to do with us or our message. We showed them
the new little video, and all of those walls began to crumble. We
began to laugh and talk a little bit more and a little bit more. Well,
by the end of the short little visit, that same wife who built
barriers as soon as she saw us, was telling us when we needed to
return and when would be the best time so we could meet with their
whole family. The guy is probably around 40, along with the wife and
they do have you get children. I'm just not sure of their ages of how
many of them there are. Miracle Number One. We left their home and
hiked up to the third and final floor or Part B. We decoded to knock
on the middle door again, because it was obviously our lucky door.
Now, another little de tour.... We have walked past this smaller
little lady about 3 or 4 times and she has always been so kind with
us. She is seriously like 5'2" tall and 100 pounds max. Her husband is
about 5'6" and about 250 pounds. She has always been very warm with us
but it has never really had a great opportunity to start a good gospel
conversation with her. We recently seen her walking out of Part B of
our apartment building and we were wondering if by chance she just
happen to live that close to us. Back to the story again. We knocked
on the middle door, on the third floor and that same little short
young lady opened the door. As she noticed that it was us, she swung
the door open a little wider and welcomed us in immediately. THREE
HOUSE IN ONE NIGHT. I almost fell over. She brought us into her
kitchen, and there we met her parents, her husband and his little 1.5
year old son. We showed them our video and talked with them for about
an hour. We mainly listened as they did a vast majority of the talking
and we would pitch in when we had the chance. I feel like we made a
really good impression with them. We didn't argue or try to tell them
everything that we knew, we just listened. Turns out that her husband,
took the missionary lessons about 20 years ago when he was a teenager
and he has read most of the Book of Mormon. As we were leaving, they
said, "We are always home, come by any time!" They were the nicest and
the coolest people. Tonight Anziano Da Ponte and I plan on returning
back to both of these families and beginning the lessons with them.
Last Tuesday, was one of the greatest evenings of my mission and it
only happened because we allowed the spirit to be our guide. That is
an area where I need to improve and improve drastically.
This past week, we did lots of service for our old blind friend Nino.
He is seriously my hero and just being around him makes me happy. I'm
not sure if I have ever told you his entire story, and if I have
already...I apologize, because right now I am going to do it again.
Nino was born in Mistretta and is 65 years old. He often tells us
hunting stories, points out the house where he was born, and he
seriously knows everyone in town by name. Nino used to live in
Northern Italy in a big city called Bologna. There he was the head
chef for many years at the biggest and fanciest restaurant in Bologna.
Bologna is a very, very large and rich city. There he was introduced
to the church by his older brother, began taking lessons from the
missionaries and was baptized by that same older brother who
introduced him to the missionaries. He still remembers those
missionaries names and years ago he went to America just to visit and
spend some time with those 2 elders. Nino married an American sister
missionary after she finished her mission and moved to Italy. They
were married and sealed in the Bern, Switzerland Temple. Nino than
decided that it would be best for him and his little family to return
to Mistretta and call Mistretta home. He continued to work as a chef
in a town about an hour drive from Mistretta called Cefalù. Nino is
well known in Mistretta and people often call him for advice on how to
cook. 8 years ago, his wife inherited a large amount of money after he
parents died. 6 and a half years ago, she told Nino that she would be
heading to America to get her knees replaced. Well she took off, had
her knees replaced, but she never did come back. She is currently
living in Brooklyn. Nino began to loose his eye sight some years back.
Now he is completely blind in his left eye and has barely anything
left in his right....yet he is the most humble, happy, grateful, kind
and loving little old fella that I've ever known. He always finds the
good in people and in every situation....no matter how difficult that
goodness may be to find. Him and his wife has one girl named Sonia.
Now Sonia is 31 years old and lives just off of the mountain in
Mistretta. She comes up often to see her dad. They are the best of
friends and he always brightens up when he starts talking about his
daughter. For Christmas this year, Nino gave Anziano Da Ponte and I a
pair of gloves and some nice long socks for the cold winter that is
approaching. He is such a good guy. In one of the Christmas
Packages that I received last week, there were 10 little marble
replica statues of the Christus statue that they have down at Temple
Square....Anziano Da Ponte and I have been giving these little statues
to our members as Christmas Presents. When we gave Nino his, he was so
thankful and immediately went up his stairs and set it on his night
stand right next to his bed. Nino is a champ and as I said earlier,
we've been doing a lot of service for him, which I love to do. He has
a little old cellar type home, that is 20 yards from his house and he
keeps all of his wood for the winter in there. These week we chopped
wood, filled sacks with the chopped wood and hauled them down to his
house so he will have plenty of wood to keep his wood stove burning.
We also took the time to re-stack his pile, so if he does it on his
own....the big tall unstable stack won't come falling down and crush
the poor guy. Now it is all safe and ready to go. I love Nino. He
wishes everyone back home a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Saturday Evening we held the annual "MISTRETTA HAS TALENT" in our
church building as our ward Christmas Party. All of the members come
prepared with something that they can perform for everyone else.
Anziano Da Ponte and I have really been encouraging the members to
invite their friends and family members who are not members to come,
but performing that invitation in a natural and normal way. We don't
want to scare people away with an awkward and strange invite...We want
to be casual and show them simply that we care. The members came
through big. We had many less active members and even a family of non
members that we have tried working with, that had never set foot in
our church. It was a HIT. We had some piano solo's, poetry, a story,
and Nino even played his harmonica for us. He dedicated one verse of
"White Christmas" to us American Missionaries. I was nominated to be
the Host. We decided that it would be a fun idea to have everyone that
wanted to perform, to bring along also a white elephant gift. After
each contestant performed, they got to choose a present from my giant
Christmas stocking. It was hilarious. The spirit of Christmas was
surely there and we had a lot of fun all together.
That is all of the good from this last week. Last Thursday was a very
special ladies birthday and today is a pretty good guys birthday. I
would like to wish Momma Mandee a Happy Birthday on the 17th and Papa
Jon a Happy Birthday Today. I'm not exactly sure what I did to receive
the parents that I did, but I consider myself to be the luckiest young
feller alive. I've been blessed with two amazing moms, that have both
given me everything that I could ever ask for. They have given me more
love than I will ever deserve and have sacrificed more than I will
ever be able to fully comprehend. My old man...well he has been my
best friend for as long as I can remember. Whether it was out on
SkyWay Golf Course on Saturday Mornings, looking up in the stands on a
Friday Evening, up in the batting cage after a long day, shoveling
concrete out of an old wheelbarrow on a hot summer day, watching the
Packer game after church or just needing someone to talk to....my old
man has always been there for me. Things may not have always been
easy, and 99.9% of that is completely my fault...but no matter what
happens, no matter where I am, no matter how old I may get....that
bald headed fella will always be my number one guy, my first best
friend, my most trusted hero, my greatest supporter and best of
all...my dad. No other person has taught me so much, while at the same
time saying so little. No other person has done so much, while at the
same time never asking for anything in return. No other person has had
more patience or put in more time turning me into who I am today.
Happy Birthday Papa Jon!! I hope it is one to remember...next year on
this day we will be together, drinking a Mountain Dew and sitting at a
sweet Chinese restaurant. Boy i cannot wait for that. I love you dad!
I'm so excited to skype home this Friday. It will be here before we
all know it and I cannot wait. Just a reminder, I will be calling home
at exactly 9 am sharp. I will be calling home to my Grandma Bubbles
computer, and it will be set up exactly how it was on Mothers Day.
Bring all the questions that you want, no matter how long, deep or
random they may be. I don't want there to be any moments of awkward
silence. If you would like to personally say something, raise your
hand or just start talking. I would love to hear from ya! I'm grateful
for you all and for the opportunity that we will have to spend a few
hours on Christmas Day together. What a blessing!
Everyone, have a great week and please be safe. Have a very, very
Merry Christmas. I hope you ap have all felt the true meaning of
Christmas. We must remember that if there would have been no Christ,
there would be no Christmas. He was and is the greatest gift that we
have received. Everything that we believe and everything that we have
hope for is only because of Him. He is our Elder Brother, our Advocate
with the Father, The Prince of Peace, The Lord of Lords, The King of
Kings. He is our Savior and our Redeemer. He is the Christ and the
only begotten of the Father. He is the reason for the season. He is
the reason for our Hope. Because of Him....everything is possible. I'm
grateful for Him and this wonderful Christmas season that we have to
remember His ever so humble birth and everything that He performed
from the time that He left that little manger. Let us, not like the in
keepers of old, make room and time for Him during this Christmas
Season. I love you all. Merry Christmas. I'll see you soon..❤️
Much Love from Italia,
Anziano JarDee Nessen
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